What I've Lived & How it Helps You - A career tanked by national press in 2015 >> If you've ever been gossiped about, judged or publicly shamed, you won't have to explain that feeling to me. We start from "I believe you." - Fired from my son's school for having an OnlyFans >> No judgment here for how you've survived, made money, or been sexual. Institutional shame is something I've lived, not read about. - Having my own parents call me a liar on television while I was living my truth >> If your reality has been disbelieved - by family, by community, by anyone - I know what it costs to keep standing in it. Your truth is safe in this room. - Support system stripped away, total isolation >> I became the support for myself that no one else showed up to be. I can teach you to be your own first responder - and then help you build a life where you're not the only one. - Shelved dating and pleasure for years >> A long drought doesn't mean you're broken or behind. I've been where you are, and the way back exists. - Carpal tunnel & bilateral hand surgery from survival work >> I understand bodies used up by labor - and how pain, numbness, and exhaustion change intimacy. We work with the body you actually have. - Mastering self-play after years of nothing >> You can't outsource knowing your own body. I'll help you learn yours - without shame, and without years of trial & error. - Twenty years from sexual trauma to mind-blowing orgasms >> That's my timeline. My entire practice exists so it isn't yours. - Purity culture childhood, zero sex ed, married my first >> If you're deconstructing religious shame, it's not too late to get the education you deserved. You can start today. - Knew I was bisexual at 18 and thought I was going to hell for it >> Questioning your orientation but wanting to be free from the fear hanging over you? I've sat exactly where you're sitting. - Explored women, men, monogamy, poly - and figured out monogamy fits me best >> Exploration isn't a phase to be judged; it's how you find your true yes. Nothing you confess will shock me. - Rounds of trial-and-error (and the doctor visits to prove it) >> I'll help you explore your sexuality and boundaries smarter & safer than I got to. - Grieving an award-winning career that ended overnight >> Identity loss is real grief. If you don't know who you are without the title, the job, the marriage - we'll figure out who you are now. - Rejected from every job application due to social stigma, failed at tutoring because of a toddler >> I know the humiliation of starting over at the bottom. Starting over is a skill. I can teach it. - Raising Black sons through an era of police violence in a predominantly white area >> Parenting under fear, advocacy burnout, and being the only one in the room - I bring that lens to this work. - Memoir, two years of documentary filming, talk shows, speaking in three countries >> Reclaiming your own narrative after the world wrote one for you is my specialty. First we fix the story you tell yourself. - Five years of no sleep with an autistic kiddo >> I will never hand you generic self-care advice that assumes you have childcare, money, or a partner. We work with your actual capacity, not a fantasy version of it. - Nine years of diapers, not two >> I understand "touched out" in my bones. If "just schedule a date night" makes you want to scream, you're in the right place. - Parenting a teenager while raising a little one alone >> I know what it means to carry multiple generations of responsibility without disappearing yourself. - The therapies-and-interventions years swallowing everything >> If your kid's needs or challenges consumed your identity, your marriage, or your desire - I know that trade, and I know the way back from it.